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Maturity In a Relationship

Morning Folks,I got this short /beautiful piece from a bbm contact and I loved it right after reading it...So I thought it wise to share with it with you guys...please Note that Maturity doesn't have anything to do with age. Its a thing of the mind. That is to say that an 11 year old boy might be more matured in reasoning than a 20 year old.
Read the short Piece after the cut and don't forget to tell me what you think.



Maturity is not about age in any way. It is the ability to do the right thing at the right time and at the right place. It is the ability to think wisely. Maturity is needed to make a relationship last. The reason there are many break-ups is due to either lack of maturity of the two partners or lack of maturity of one of the partners. Maturity in a relationship includes the following:

 1. Maturity is the ability to tolerate your partner. A mature person ignores some bad characters of his/her partner. Nobody is perfect. Overlook some minor behaviours of your partner. A mature person does not quit a relationship over a slight provocation.

 2. Maturity is the ability to control your anger. A mature person does not react instantly to an anger. Any decision you take when angry can be very dangerous. Calm down. Allow your anger cool down before you act. This is maturity.

 3. Maturity is the ability to open to your partner and express your feelings whenever he/she offends you. Keeping malice or grudges does not portray any sense of maturity.

 4. Maturity is the ability to forgive your partner when he/she offends you and apologises. Let us apply this to our relationship. It will help to ensure that we have a happy relationship.

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